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Insights from Ann-Marie Flinn, Champion Change Agency Founder
What I Wish I'd Known About Self-Limiting Beliefs Before the Hard Years
No one sits down, looks in a mirror and decides they’re not good enough. Self-limiting beliefs become real to us over time, when they’re not named and challenged. It’s the thought patterns that happen in the background that become the reality we live in. A self-limiting belief is an internalized story about what you're capable of, what you deserve, or what's realistic.
Courage Comes Before Confidence
In the many years I’ve been supporting women in leadership, I continue to notice something that I think we should talk about.
So many women I work with are highly competent. They have the skills, the experience, the answers, AND…they don't always trust themselves to use them fully.
I call this the Confidence vs Competence Gap.
The Hidden Cost of Playing Small Right Now
75% of female executives report imposter syndrome, compared to 33% of men. Lean In's 2024 research found that 60% of women stay silent in meetings specifically to avoid being perceived as aggressive.
There is a pattern behind all of this, and I call this the Confidence vs Competence Gap.
The Four Stages of Learning: Why Getting Uncomfortable Is Part of the Process
The four stages of learning is a model that explains why growth feels uncomfortable, why that discomfort is not a warning sign, and what is actually happening in your brain and behaviour when you push past the edge of what you already know. Understanding this model changes how you experience the process of becoming more capable at anything, whether that is a new skill, a new role, or a new way of thinking about yourself.
What Is the Inner Critic? How to Recognize the Voice That's Getting in Your Own Way
You have probably heard the term "Inner Critic" before. What most people have not had explained to them is why it gets loudest at exactly the moment you can least afford to second-guess yourself, before the big meeting, the ask, the decision that actually matters. This post is about learning to recognize it before it makes another decision for you.
What Would You Do If You Didn't Wait to Be Fearless?
Recently, before speaking at a University for a women in business conference, I told a friend I was nervous.
So the question I brought to that room full of students was this:
“What would you do, and more importantly, who would you be, if you didn't wait to be fearless? If you didn't wait to be 100% confident? If you refused to fake it?”
You Don't Have to Feel Ready to Show Up
Fear does not go away when you become more experienced. It just gets louder at bigger moments. The night before International Women's Day, I walked onto the stage at Atlantic Canada's largest Women in Business Conference as the closing keynote speaker. Over 200 people in the audience. My inner critic was working overtime. Here is what I did anyway.
How to Get Your Employer to Fund Your Professional Training (and Why So Many Women Still Hesitate to Ask)
Struggling to ask your employer for professional development funding? You're not alone. Research shows only 7% of women negotiate their first job offer compared to 57% of men, and this gap persists throughout careers. Learn how to overcome your Inner Critic, craft a purpose-driven request that aligns with organizational goals, and transform "no" into "not yet." Discover the proven strategy to advocate for your growth with confidence—because when you invest in your leadership development, everyone wins. Your next career breakthrough starts with one bold ask.
My 2026 Word Of The Year
At this time of year, I love reflecting on the moments that shaped me and the people I had the privilege of walking alongside. I also choose an “anchor” word to return to throughout the new year, a word that helps me grow into who I am, who I’m becoming, and what I desire more of in my life and work.
This year, when a team member asked what my word for 2026 would be, the answer came out before I could overthink it: Curious.
Core Principles of a Champion Mindset
Imagine this: You’re standing at the crossroads of a significant change in your life. Maybe it’s a new job, a personal challenge, or a big decision you’ve been putting off.
You feel a mix of excitement and fear, and that little voice of doubt starts whispering, "Can I really do this?"
Today I want to talk about how to embrace a Champion Mindset.
Champion Women’s Summit 2024 Recap
This year, we welcomed over 50 women to the Champion Women’s Summit for an immersive 2.5-day journey of learning, growth, and transformation. Through embracing discomfort, participants embarked on a powerful path to personal and professional transformation.
Rewrite your internal self talk
A few years ago, I had the privilege of taking part in a year long leadership development program held in California. I met the most incredible humans from around the world. Many are now life long friends and colleagues. A group of us still meet virtually every two weeks to practice our leadership skills, hold...
What is unhealthy Perfectionism?
What's the difference between unhealthy perfectionism and the healthy pursuit of excellence? I was recently a keynote speaker at a large women’s conference where I presented Perfect Imperfection. Part of my talk included the idea of giving ourselves a bit of slack when it comes to the rigid standards perfectionists place on themselves when wanting...
Are you a Perfectionist?
Are you a Perfectionist? What are the signs? How do I know if I'm a perfectionist? I was recently asked by some folks, “How do I know if I’m a perfectionist?” and, “How can I spot a perfectionist?” Being a recovering perfectionist myself – and researching this topic for decades – the short answer is:...
The Perfectly Hidden Wound
I never knew this until recently, but I am a recovering perfectionist. My aim in this newsletter is to share my personal story and shed some light on a growing epidemic: Perfectionism. I honestly thought that my innate need to function at an exhaustingly high level was just normal. The obsessive need to – practice…